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सपनों को मैं सारे खाक करके आया हूँ  दिल की सारी हसरतों को पाक करके आया हूँ  मेरे होने से तुझको कुछ तो है हर्ज  आज खुद को मैं खुद से साफ करके आया हूँ 

जो छोड़ा मैंने ही उसकी तलब क्यों  है    मेरे अंदर ही दो इन्सान अलग क्यों है 

Expectations are the biggest source of pain. Expectations create huge hurdles against the organic flow of life. Expectations make humans believe in an impulsive and emotional manner. The irony of expectations is, they are hardly ever fulfilled. The outcomes are always different than what one has expected. And, most of the times, they work out just fine for one's life. Expectations also create resentments. The kryptonite of relationships. Resentments always come in the way of joy. If there are no expectations, there will be no resentments.  No one behaves as you expect. No one does things the way you expect. No one likes to be told what to do and how to do it. You are the architect of your life. Build it in a way which works for you. You may need to rely on people as you are not living in isolation. But, make sure that that reliance doesn't become your handicap. Always have Plan B, Plan C, Plan D for any unexpected changes by others. Or learn to accept that sometimes things won...

देख नहीं पाता खुदको दुनिया की नजरो से  कुछ बात तो है उनमे जो मुझ मैं नहीं 

खुद को  ही  काट  के  खुद  को चला रहा  हूँ  पता  नहीं  आखिर  मैं  बचूँगा  या  फ़िर  मैं  कुछ  टुकडे  अगर  मेरे  गिरे  कही  मिले  बताना  देखूँगा  क्या  उसको  फिर  जोड़ पा रहा हूँ  मैं 

The process of reflecting can seem very useful and comforting, yet it can be very deceiving.  There are times when we just need to live our lives. Take actions on things and just go about our business. But instead of doing that, we get stuck in the process of reflecting about things which are not actually there.  Life keeps flowing and we have to keep flowing to be in sync with that. Especially, when we’re trying to achieve some real world success. Success which can help us and our dependents survive. Not caring about money and material things seem great and romantic to some but not when your family or closed ones are craving for basic things required to live a normal, respectful life. One solution to this dilemma is to learn better compartmentalisation. You may be a person who can not help your habit of getting slipped into endless web of thoughts, shouldn’t mean you can’t get a success you deserve. You just need to learn to teach your mind to focus on the regular tasks of yo...