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When everything goes according to plan, human mind gets agitated as it is accustomed to some level of anarchy and imperfection. In the absence of those things, it starts getting uncomfortable and consciously or subconsciously starts breaking some of his own creations and methods. It has one basic principle problem. We tend to think that we have everything under control and if we are following what all we have thought means we have become perfect. It’s such a problematic and self-fulfilling thinking pattern. Nothing is ever perfect. You don’t need to plan to have some imperfections just because everything seems too perfect to you. Believe me, it is not. When this happens with you, understand no matter how much you try, there will be some degree of anarchy and imperfection in your life.   So stay calm and keep striving for that perfection you are after. Some anarchy will be there and if there isn’t any then you are probably god, which is not a bad thing at all. Just come connect with...

Sometimes in life, you are dealing with stupid and vicious people. People who find pleasure when other people are disturbed or not happy. People who are more interested in other's suffering more than their own happiness. It can be very tiring and excrusiating experience for you, if you are not a thick skinned person. The more sensitive you are, the more you suffer in such situations. The question is, how would you deal with such people? The first situation is when they are not directly affecting you The simple answer to this situation is, you do not need to deal with them, unless you are their guru or someone who is on a mission to save the world.   They are already suffering from a disease of not being able to prioritize their own life. Nearly their whole existence is busy in living and observing someone else's life. They are already losing their life in such a fruitless pursuit and you don't want to add into their life's difficulties. If it does not concern you much, ...

Are you and the things you do are two different things?  Can your productions and your creations be detached from yourself once they are completed?  If that is the truth, what is your identity? Or is there not a concept of an identity in the long run? When I think about the famous thought presented in the Bible, nothing is original under the sun, I wonder, is there a point to be too possessive about what you do and what you do not do?  Should there be a feeling of possession towards your so called creations and boundaries you have raised around that. Not just you, the whole humanity in a way.  How can a famous singer be a nuclear scientist or a car mechanic?  How can a patented art can be copied?  How can a normal moddle class person own a really luxurious car? And so on. I know, I am dragging this a bit now but is identity that much important or should a human have complete freedom in a moment where he lives.  Because believe me, wishes change all the...

Surprise, surprise!  I am a human and I have feelings too.  You are also a human and you have feelings too.  Now, what to do? They control every part of my life They control every second how I feel They control everything I decide They control every time I lose They control every time I win Do I have any actual control over me? Or is it just my emotions and my feelings driving my body to do things? If so, then what is this? Who is this imaginary soul or person writing this?  If I do not exist then who is observing these events where my emotions and feelings are controlling my life? Should I control or can I control my emotions and my feelings? Should I modulate or can I regulate my emotions and my feelings? Will I still be able to live my organic authentic life, if I change the way I feel about everything? What is deciding how would I behave and what emotions would come to me when I engage with anything or anyone? Will I regret if I interfere too much with my natural...